Couples Counseling
Denver, NC
Couples Counseling in Denver, NC
Premarital
&
Couples
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You miss the way things used to be
When you look at pictures from early on in your relationship, you wish you could go back to how things felt back then. Back to when you felt in sync, more like teammates. Back to when you loved being around each other and were excited for the future together. Sometimes, you feel confused about what changed, but other times, you think you may know how you got here. Nevertheless, you want to get back to feeling “in love” with your spouse.
Communication is hard
Nowadays, you dread having to talk about anything difficult because you feel like it always ends in a misunderstanding, if not an argument. Sometimes, mean things are said. Other times, it’s not the words that are mean, but rather the presentation. In other cases, no words are said for hours, maybe even days. You find that both you and your partner get defensive, sometimes preemptively. Then, conversations get nowhere. You miss being able to just talk.
You feel disconnected
You used to feel like you were best friends with your partner. You miss that. Now, it feels like they just don’t understand you. Maybe it’s because you don’t feel like they are giving you the love you want. The love you need. You feel drained of giving because you feel like you aren’t receiving. You’ve tried to tell them what you need, and you find yourself waiting and hoping they will change so that things can feel better. However, as time passes, it seems to feel less and less likely.
We can help!
Here at Equalize Counseling & Consulting, we believe that relationships are not only worth saving, but we also believe that it is possible to regain connection and find the romance you have been missing. To start off, we help clients improve their communication by teaching valuable skills that will help with everyday conversations and during conflict. We will also help you to better understand one another so that you feel more connected and know how your partner needs you to show your love. From there, we cover the other topics that often cause disagreements in relationships such as roles/responsibilities, money, family, sex, and more. Using couples therapy techniques, while also bringing in skills from our other approaches, helps us to give you a wide variety of tools to use individually and as a couple. Want more information on how we do this? Check out our approaches including Prepare/Enrich, CBT, DBT, & EMDR
Build your friendship & reignite your passion
We’d love to help you. Click here to schedule your free 15-minute phone consult for couples counseling in Denver. Many couples also benefit from individual sessions to work on things that could cause marital strife. Check out our other specialities to see how we can also help anxiety, depression, trauma, premarital, families, and weight loss.